Discover Your Most Radiant Sexual Self

Experience Your Full Potential for Pleasure and Enjoy Sex More…even after pelvic pain, trauma, or menopause.

Do you struggle with pain, shame, guilt or numbness around sex or self-pleasure?

Have you found yourself avoiding sex or intimacy due to fear, stress, or lack of desire?

Do you feel like sex should be something more…more sacred, more connected, more pleasurable?

Have you felt like you’re missing out or like a part of you is broken?

Whether you are experiencing anxiety or discomfort around sex, healing from chronic female pain, or feeling broken because you no longer desire or enjoy sex — you can learn how to fill your life with the magic of pleasure, intimacy, and sensuality.

Imagine Feeling Playful, Confident, and Free Around Sex and Intimacy Again (or For the First Time Ever)…

You deserve to enjoy sex, come alive with pleasure, and experience deep connection and self-love but instead you may be…

Grappling with confusion or frustration

Shut down

Carrying shame, guilt or anxiety that you can’t seem to shake

Worried that you’re letting your partner down – or that you’ll never find one

Feeling like you’re missing out, like sex should be something more…more sacred, more connected, more pleasurable

I hear you. I have been there. I’ve struggled with painful sex myself and I’ve been helping women heal pelvic pain and reclaim pleasure and joy in their sexuality for over 12 years. 

I want you to know that you are not alone, and you do not have to stay where you are. 

What if you could…

Reconnect to your sexuality in a loving, positive, safe and nourishing way.

Experience your full potential for pleasure.

Fully enjoy sex and intimacy.

Have mind-melting, heart expanding, full body orgasms - regularly.

Feel radiant and sensually alive in your body.

Get Your Sexy Back…even after pelvic pain, sexual trauma, motherhood, and menopause.

Introducing…

Reclaim Your Sexual Self

The Mind Body Program for Unlocking Orgasmic Pleasure, Sensual Aliveness, and Radiant Self-Love for Women

This transformative program is the pleasure-based empowered sex education you always should have had … delivered in a supportive community of amazing women where you’ll get to connect, have fun, and heal while learning more about your most extraordinary self.

 

.…for your health, your life, and your pleasure (and great sex too!)

During our 6 weeks together you will:

Release worry, stress and anxiety around sex and self-pleasure.

Unlock the keys to sensual aliveness and sexual pleasure in your body.

Identify and transform negative beliefs around your sexuality

Ditch discomfort, numbness, and burning during sex

Discover the secrets to full-body, heart-expanding, mind-melting orgasms at every age - even if you’ve been unable to achieve orgasm in the past

Embrace your vulva and vagina in a new, positive, healthy and empowering way.

Understand female arousal anatomy and discover what brings your body pleasure.

Cultivate deep self-love and feeling safe and at home inside your own skin.

Nourish your body with pleasure.

I have developed a completely new relationship with myself, my body and my sensuality.

“Working with Lorraine was like walking into a calm oasis to deal with something that I had great anxiety about. Her wisdom comes from that fact she is teaching through what she has experienced in her own body and also what she has learnt from her teachers. She is very well prepared, the course materials are excellent and her kindness and warmth help in working with emotions and resistance. I feel like I have developed a completely new relationship with myself, my body and my sensuality.” – Deepa, Westbourne, UK

Right now, it may be difficult to embrace your desires (or even know what they are). And it’s not your fault…

We live in a system that is designed to cut women off from their sexuality and pleasure. Cultural stigmas and taboos have made it difficult for women and girls to explore and celebrate their own sexuality.

So many women I’ve worked with initially feel uncomfortable talking about or learning about their sexuality and pleasure for themselves.

All of this shame around female sexuality, along with our conditioning to prioritize our partners’ pleasure, has cut us off from understanding our own body.

This not only prevents us from enjoying sex, and experiencing the orgasmic pleasure we could be experiencing, but it can contribute to pain, discomfort, numbness, freezing, and an inability to communicate our desires and set healthy boundaries.

It is impacting our health and lives on so many levels beyond just what is happening during sex with a partner.

Embracing Your Sexuality and Pleasure Can Improve Every Aspect of Your Life.

Like most women, I grew up in a family, religion and culture that both subtly and openly shames women around their bodies and sexuality.

Even though I longed to experience freedom around my sexuality and deep sexual connection with a partner…I kept bumping up against an inability to speak up and ask for (or know) what I wanted; along with self-judgment, confusion, doubt, chronic infections—and eventually pain.

I healed my relationship with my sexual self long ago and with a commitment to deepening my connection with my sexuality and pleasure, I continue to feel more radiantly healthy, empowered, blissful, and alive in my body all the time.

As a result of embracing pleasure so many things in my life have improved – from my relationships, to my career, to my confidence and my health.

Over the past 12 years I have used what I’ve learned to help thousands of women not only reclaim a happy health sex life, but also relieve pelvic and sexual pain through embracing their emotions, sexuality and pleasure.

What I’ve seen is that a woman’s capacity for pleasure, love, joy, vibrant health, and orgasm is unlimited (at every age) and will continue to unfold, along with a deep sense of self-love and feeling at home inside her own skin, as she reclaims her most radiant sexual self.

Which is why I am on a mission to help as many women as possible reclaim and awaken this amazing part of themselves!

Reclaim Your Sexual Self is for you…

No matter how young or old you are…

No matter what experiences you have had up until now around your sexuality…

You can create a nourishing positive relationship with your sexual self - for yourself.

In my experience there isn't anything more important to your health, your confidence, your relationships, and your ability to fulfill your dreams and enjoy your life.

Your sexuality — your vulva and vagina — are a source of life force energy, creativity, and intuition.

They are a beautiful and amazing part of you and a positive connection with them is integral to your health and wellbeing, to your relationships, to feeling whole and safe inside your own skin, to feeling passionate and alive, and living the outrageously joyful life you are meant to live! 

Here’s what women from the last round of Reclaim Your Sexual Self shared:

“Five stars! I highly recommend Lorraine’s Reclaiming Your Sexual Self program.”

“I honestly thought I was too far gone/too broken to benefit from a sexuality course and could not have been more wrong! It was life changing!”

“As someone who has had trouble even saying the names of female body parts out loud, I can attest to the program’s effectiveness in changing my relationship with my body and diminishing my feelings of discomfort and ‘ickiness’ around subjects such as sex and sexuality.”

“As a woman, I have long had a belief that I couldn’t shake – that my body and sexuality was there for men, not for me. By doing the exercises, I have noticed a notable shift in how I see myself and have moved closer to experiencing my sexuality as mine – a gift for me.”

“I would 100% recommend this program to anyone feeling dissociated from themselves as a woman. You will not regret it!”

We asked women in the last Reclaim Your Sexual Self Program some questions. Here’s what they said…

90% of women surveyed said that participating in the Reclaim Your Sexual Self Program shifted their relationship with their sexuality in a positive way.

90% of women surveyed said that they were enjoying their body more as a result of the course.

100% of participants surveyed said that they would recommend the Reclaim Your Sexual Self Program to other women.

Here’s what we’ll cover in the Reclaim Your Sexual Self Program:

Week 1: Reconnect with Your Sexuality and Pleasure

  • Build Sensation Awareness
  • Body Love
  • Breast and Heart Connection

Week 2: Overcome Resistance

  • Release sexual shame and negative conditioning
  • Rewrite your script on sex, pleasure, and intimacy
  • Overcome fear and anxiety around intimacy and Intercourse

Week 3: Embrace and Expand Pleasure

  • Self-Pleasure basics
  • Mind body pleasure tools and how to use them
  • Pleasure Bath

Week 4: Your Amazing Vulva

  • The phases to heal ‘vagina disconnection’
  • Embrace your vulva and vagina
  • Female arousal anatomy

Week 5: Open to Orgasm

  • Rewire your response to pleasure
  • Nourish Your Body
  • Full body energy basics

Week 6: Love Your Sexuality

  • Your sexuality and your health
  • Sex, Intimacy and Communication
  • Incorporating toys (jade egg, wand, etc)

Here’s What’s Included:

6 LIVE Group Classes with Lorraine

Each week I’ll walk you step by step through the material for the week, answer your questions, and guide you through your practice for the week.

24/7 Private On-demand Community

You’ll have access to me and the other women in the group in a private online community where you can ask questions, get answers and feedback, share your successes, and receive the extra support you need, when you need it.

3 Sexy Sisterhood Circles with Lorraine

These bonus group calls offer additional time to practice together, share successes and experiences with each other, and receive additional support, mentoring and guidance from Lorraine.

Class recordings, handouts, and practice audios

You’ll receive complete recordings of every live session along with handouts and audio recordings to guide you through your practice at home. You can access the information anytime in your private course platform.

I learned/experienced that I can feel pleasure in different parts of my body…

“…and that pleasure can be so much more then just clitoris and nipples. It was very helpful to learn the arousal anatomy and the steps before going into self-pleasuring or intercourse and knowing when you are ready for the next step.

 

A big benefit is that there is so much more to explore then penetration and the regular way of masturbation. This is giving me relief. Sex with myself and a partner became a bit monotonous to me and it felt there were not many other options. Now I have many nice alternatives to practise with a future partner and with myself. I feel more empowered and strong.” – 2020 RYSS participant

I can feel pleasure in my body so much more easily…

“I would definitely recommend the RYSS program. It was very healing and empowering for me to discuss my sexuality and body with Lorraine and all the wonderful and strong women that also participated. Because of the program I can feel pleasure in my body so much more easily then before. And the fun part is that there is so much more to explore! During the program you will get plenty of tools to practise and discover your sexual self.” – Sophie

When & Where:

The 6-Week Program Begins Tuesday June 28, 2022

6 LIVE Group Classes will meet Tuesdays at 2:00 pm ET
(June 28, July 5, July 12, July 19, July 26, August 2)

3 Bonus Sisterhood Circles will meet Thursdays at 2:00 pm ET
(July 7, July 21, and August 4)

Can’t make the live calls? No problem. All calls will be recorded.

Join Today for

ONLY $995

Or 3 payments of $345

By completing your purchase of the course, you are agreeing to our terms of purchase, and acknowledge that we will treat your information in a way that is consistent with our privacy policy.

As this program has limited spaces, there will be no refunds. Please shop mindfully.

If you have questions that weren’t answered on this page, please contact Lorraine.

It’s time for a change.

Research shows that only 65% of heterosexual women and 86% of lesbian women orgasm during intimacy, compared to 95% of heterosexual men — and those numbers don’t include all the women who aren’t having sex due to sexual pain, shame, anxiety or trauma.

Your Pleasure Matters.
You are not too old, too broken, or too far gone to enjoy sex and experience sensual pleasure.

Enjoying your sexuality is NOT a frivolous extra.

Your pleasure, and your connection with your sexual self, matter.

  • It matters for your relationships.
  • It matters for your aliveness, joy, and feeling safe and at home inside your own skin.
  • It matters for your health and wellbeing.

It’s time for YOU to have a happy, pleasure-filled, vibrant, satisfying sex life!

And it is absolutely possible….even after pelvic pain, negative sexual experiences, motherhood, and menopause.

Join Reclaim Your Sexual Self to…

Release worry, stress and anxiety around sex and self-pleasure.

Unlock the keys to sensual aliveness and sexual pleasure in your body.

Identify and transform negative beliefs around your sexuality

Ditch discomfort, numbness, and burning during sex

Discover the secrets to full-body, heart-expanding, mind-melting orgasms at every age - even if you’ve been unable to achieve orgasm in the past

Embrace your vulva and vagina in a new, positive, healthy and empowering way.

Understand female arousal anatomy and discover what brings your body pleasure.

Cultivate deep self-love and feeling safe and at home inside your own skin.

Nourish your body with pleasure.

You deserve to love and accept ALL of yourself and experience your body as the source of pleasure, love, joy and beauty that it is.

About Lorraine

Hi I’m Lorraine Faehndrich, Women’s Pelvic Health and Pain Relief Coach and the creator of the mind body pain relief program Healing Female Pain.

In addition to healing pelvic pain and sexual trauma myself, over the past 12+ years I have helped thousands of women all over the world heal pelvic and sexual pain, rediscover pleasure, reclaim a healthy positive relationship with their sexuality, and go on to live outrageously joyful and radiantly healthy lives.

…I know without question that all of this is possible for you too, and I would love to help.

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